Types of Fostering
The future, it’s always a bit of an
adventure isn’t it. You never know what to expect. But thinking
about a future as a foster carer offers more adventure than most.
Plenty of surprises too. For example, we doubt you realised quite
how many different types of foster care there are. After all, a
lot of people presume that foster care is all or nothing. Foster
care doesn’t have to mean a 24 hour a day, 7 days a week commitment.
There are a wide range of children who need looking after from anything
from one day a week, every week, to every day for the remainder
of their childhood – and everything in-between. You can care for
toddlers or teens or even be involved in specialist care…….it all
comes down to what’s best for you and the children.
Short Term
Fostering
Ranging from an overnight stay to
three months, this usually results from problems or illness in the
family, or from the child being harmed or abused in some way. Offering
a safe place for them to live, you'll help them to understand what's
happening and offer support, whilst social services work with the
family to return the child home as soon as possible.
Intermediate
Sometimes children are unable to return
home within three months. They may need to be looked after for up
to two years. This is a more significant period of care for a child
and it will be important for you to help them maintain links with
their family.
Long-term
Despite loving their children dearly,
some parents are unable to change their lives in a way that will
protect them. In such cases, these children will not be able to
go back and live with their own families even though they may want
to. You can help by offering a child the chance to grow up in a
safe and supportive environment, where they’ll receive proper care
and attention and the opportunity to keep in touch with their family.
Short Breaks
(Part –time Caring)
This involves having children to
stay with you for a short time so that their families and carers
can have a regular break. From a few hours each week to a weekend
a month, for planned breaks and sometimes in an emergency, you can
provide help and support to many families. Providing this type of
foster care is something you can fit into your daily life, combining
it with your other commitments such as a full-time job. Part –time
foster care is always planned. So you’ll know exactly when a young
person will be staying with you and for how long.
Part-Time
Caring For Disabled Children
Part time caring is for children and
young people who have disabilities and live in Cheshire. For you,
it is something you might be able to fit around your daily routines
and combine offering short break care with fostering commitments
and other employment. It’s important for families of disabled children
to have a short break on occasions. Whether it is for a day, a weekend
or during the school holidays, parents need to spend time with their
own children or each other, safe in the knowledge that their child
is happy and well cared for in a loving family home. It also aims
to offer social opportunities to children who may have become isolated
from peers and the community. Part time caring is more planned,
regular and short periods, but it is hoped that a link may become
well established over the longer period. As a foster carer, you’ll
have the opportunity to care for many different types of children
and young people.
Teenagers
Teenage years can be and some of
us may well remember feeling insecure and misunderstood. But for
a young person who has gone through particularly distressing experiences
at home, it can be a very unsettling time. Sometimes circumstances
reach the point when they can no longer remain at home with their
parents. This is a critical stage in their lives and without appropriate
guidance and support, there is a risk they might get into behaviour
and lifestyles that could seriously affect their future.
As a foster carer it’s up to you to
see through to the vulnerable young person inside. To help them
navigate the turbulent times of adolescence and to listen carefully
to the individual – not the image.
Teenagers, like all young people,
need foster carers who are tolerant, patient and flexible, but who
can also set clear and consistent boundaries, so they know where
they stand. You need to ‘actively’ listen, help make sense of what
to them may seem a confused world and let them know they’ve got
someone to talk to who really cares.
Young people often need help to develop
the maturity and skills they need to organise their lives. Helping
them to manage their feelings, emotions and behaviour, enjoy time
with their family and friends, and to feel good about themselves
and their achievements – can make all the difference.
Relationships made with foster carers
can remain important to a teenager even after they have moved on.
Knowing that someone who cares is only a phone call away or that
they will receive a warm welcome if they go and visit really matters.
Fostering teenagers can be hard work
and challenging. But we’ll be with you all the way, ensuring you
experience the best rewards imaginable - by giving a teenager a
home.
Disabled children
Every child is unique. And disabled
children have the same needs as other children.
On a daily basis, Cheshire County
Councils looks after over 150 disabled children. ‘Disabled’ may
include a learning disability, physical disability, sensory impairment
or a combination of these. Many people are fearful of disability,
believing they do not have the knowledge or skills. Cheshire County
Council will provide you with all of the training and support that
you need to enable you to overcome these fears and help you realise
the enormous rewards. When caring for a disabled child it is important
that you have the ability to view disability positively, so that
you are able to support, challenge negative attitudes and encourage
development of a positive self-image for the child in your care.
Large Groups of Brothers and
Sisters
Staying together is very important
to children who have had changes in their lives. They need the security
and comfort of each other as much as they need you. We always need
people to take on groups of brothers and sisters, and if this type
of care appeals to you, you might find yourself caring for two,
three, four or even more children.
Mother and baby
You may feel able to help young mothers
who need support and security and that you can teach and encourage
them without taking over their responsibilities as mothers. Your
support will help them to develop the maturity and skills they need
to organise their lives.
Remember, fostering is hugely satisfying,
extremely rewarding and great fun. It offers carers many different
opportunities to make a difference in a child’s life. You will be
given all the appropriate training and support that you need, including
financial assistance and special equipment where necessary.
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