Your Eligibility
We’re sure that one of the first questions
you’ll be asking yourself is whether or not you’ll be considered
suitable to foster a child or a young person. Well the good news
is that if you think you’d like to foster, then we’re pretty sure
you’ll be able to. Here’s a checklist of what we consider to be
the essential requirements in a carer.
It’s
essential that ...
- You like children and young people
and enjoy their company
- You can work effectively alongside
other people in the child’s life.
- You don’t have a police record for
violence or offences against children.
- You can understand
or a re prepared to learn, how children behave when they’ve been
emotionally or physically hurt.
- You’re willing to attend training
courses and support groups.
- You have room in your home for a
child or children
You can foster
...
- Whether you’re single or married.
- Whether you’ve a disability or medical
condition (as long as it’s stable and doesn’t affect your ability
to care for a child).
- Whether you’ve children of your
own or not.
- Whether you own your own home –
as long as you have a stable tenancy.
- Whether you work – we have a variety
of schemes to suit a wide range of circumstances.
- Whether you’re retired.
- Whether your own childhood was difficult,
as long as you’ve learnt from the experiences.
- What ethnic background you’re from.
We need carers from all different cultures in order to match children
and young people with suitable families.
Skills and
Qualities Required …
It’s fair to say that many of the
children who need fostering have been through some very traumatic
experiences. They may have some quite challenging behaviour or they
might just feel lonely and afraid. As a foster carer, you’ll provide
day to day care for any child who needs looking after, but it’s
much more than that. Your role will be to support them, help them
develop and grow and act on their behalf when dealing with, for
example, educational services. There are, therefore, some key skills
or qualities that we look for in our foster carers. These abilities
will probably be natural to you and if not, with our support, you’ll
soon acquire them. You must be able to provide a good standard of
care for other people’s children, promoting the healthy growth,
development and achievement of the child. You’ll need the ability
to work closely with the child’s family and those important to the
child.
In addition, you’ll need the ability
to set appropriate boundaries and manage a child’s behaviour without
resorting to physical or inappropriate punishment. You’ll also need
knowledge of child development and must be able to listen to and
communicate with children in a manner appropriate to their age and
understanding.
Ensuring that children are cared
for in a home safe from harm and abuse, you’ll advise the children
on how to get help when they need to. Working with other professionals,
you’ll contribute to and help to implement a care plan for the child.
This may include specific responsibilities e.g. making sure the
child is able to visit her / his family and friends.
You will also need to communicate
with a variety of people and promote equality. Actively encouraging
children to learn, you’ll help them to feel positive about their
origins, religion and culture.
Helping children to develop secure
attachments with adults is another essential element of a carer’s
role. This involves helping the child to realise that some adults
can provide them with safe and effective care.
You’ll be able to speak up for the
child in order to ensure that they receive good care and the opportunity
to develop. Making the best use of training opportunities, you should
be willing to develop your skills and appreciate how personal experiences
have affected you and your family as well as how fostering will
affect everyone concerned.
Working as part of the Cheshire team
and with staff and professionals from many agencies, you’ll work
within policy and guidelines that are in place and ensure that each
child fulfils their potential. You’ll take part in meetings about
the child you’re caring for, keep written records about their care
and contribute to reports about the child, dealing responsibly with
confidential information.
Your strong character must be able
to sustain positive relationships during periods of stress, and
you should have links within the community that will provide you
with the support you need whenever you need it.
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